February 22, 2021: I Am Baptized.

Martin Luther talked about remembering out baptism on a daily basis. While it was something that occurred in the past, it had lasting effects. It wasn’t a “one and done” type thing.

During Lent, this is what I ask. Every morning when you wake up, and every night when you lie down, make the first and last words you say to yourself the following.

“I am baptized.”

When you say then, make the cross on yourself. This could be a cross on your forehead, or it could be more of a full body cross where you touch your forehead, chest and shoulders.

It doesn’t matter how you do it as there isn’t a wrong way or a right now. God’s sacraments don’t “work” because of how they are done or who is doing them, they “work” because simply because they done. Any power or efficacy they have comes from God and nowhere else. (If you want to learn the fancy latin way of saying this you would say, “ex opere operato.” What this means it that the sacraments are not dependent on the person doing it that would be “ex opere operantis”, but rather, they “work” because of the grace of God.)

Try working either of those phrases into a conversation!

Grace and Peace,

Pastor Tim

February 18, 2021: Help with a local Warming Shelter

Winter is in full force throughout the country. It is unbelievable the trouble they are having in Texas as they are going multiple days without power and many need to boil their water before drinking it. It has struck here as well, as each week we seem to be getting a few more inches of snow. I am continually grateful that I have a warm house and plenty of clothes to keep warm and can live a life that is fairly unaffected by the weather.

That is not the case for many people. Just this morning, I received an email that the warming shelter in Dover is in dire need for volunteers. Below is a portion of that email.

It seems that there are only a handful of folks who are volunteering and providing breakfast-to-go bags as well as donate and deliver snacks for the Center. I can only imagine that the word is not getting out as surely there are many more members of our faith community that can spare a small block of time to assist the limited staff that CAP is able to provide during the hours of operation.

They need volunteers to be there from 4 PM to 8 PM, then from 8 to midnight, then from midnight to 6 AM and finally from 6 to nine. They also need about 40 breakfast bags donated and delivered each morning that the center is open and they need to be there to hand them out at 7:30 AM.

Please pass on the link where they can find the schedule and who has volunteered for each of these slots and they can simply put in their name, email, phone number, and the shift they will be there. Another link of the site will tell people what has been donated for breakfast-to-go and what is still needed and a third link will show what snacks they need and what has been donated and what is still needed.

Thank you for all you do for the homeless in our community and I sincerely hope some of the leaders of the various faiths will publicize this to their congregations and put out the invitation to help. This is a wonderful way to perform a work of mercy in sheltering the poor during Lent.

Here is the link for in-person volunteers https://www.signupgenius.com/go/4090a4ea5aa2fa4fc1-warming7

Here are the two links for providing food https://www.signupgenius.com/go/4090A4EA5AA2FA4FC1-warming5

https://www.signupgenius.com/go/4090A4EA5AA2FA4FC1-warming6

To learn more about the warming shelter please visit this site from the city of Dover.

https://www.dover.nh.gov/services/warming-and-cooling-centers.html

Thanks for your prayerful consideration in helping out in this way.

Pastor Tim

February 15, 2021: When will we return to in-person worship?

Last Thursday, I was able to receive the second dose of the Moderna Covid vaccination. I can’t tell you how fortunate I feel to have it. Again, I am glad that I didn’t have to make up the guidelines for who receives it and when. Seems like no matter what is decided, someone was/is going to be upset.

I also hear more and more stories about people from the congregation getting scheduled for first and second doses. Some with more success than others. Because of the vaccination, many COVID related numbers seem to be trending in the right direction. In fact, on my drive to the church building today, I was listening to the podcast, “Up First” by NPR, and they were sharing the same positive news. It does seem like there is light at the end of the tunnel. This will not go on forever.

Because things are appearing to be moving in the right direction, it is natural to start wondering when will we begin offering indoor worship services again. In fact, if you have asked yourself that question, you are not alone. I think of it often, as does church council. At our last council meeting, this past Thursday, we spent a good portion of it discussing this question. The conversation was around finding some type of metric that we could follow based on information that we all agree on. Then when the agreed upon information was in an agreed upon range, we would have the conversation about resuming in-person worship. But finding that information is difficult. We didn’t want to use something like “survival rate” or “total deaths.” Both can be used to skew opinions easily. Even if “survival rate” is a fraction of 1%, when you extrapolate that over the entire population, total deaths could be in the millions. Obviously, that is unacceptable. In reverse thought, if you solely focus on the total number of deaths, it can lead to paralysis and the thinking that there is no acceptable safe behavior.

Fortunately, we came upon the website www.covidactnow.org. What we like about this website is it provides information in easy-to-read formats and provides context for the information. You can search by state, county and city metro areas to find up-to-date COVID information. The 4 basic data points it uses are “daily new cases per 100k,” “infection rate,” positive test rate,” and “ICU capacity.” It provides where a state, county or city metro area currently is, regarding these areas, and what are target rates to achieve that would allow that county to “move to a different color.” I encourage you to take some time and explore it. When it designates Rockingham County as “orange” (we are currently “red”) we will have the conversation about offering in-person worship. Until then, we believe it is not safe to do so. We will be checking this site regularly and will have a special council meeting if we are designated “orange” before our regularly scheduled monthly meeting.

Please pray for everyone who is making decisions during this time. There is no easy decision. Pray for school superintendents and principals. Pray for mayor’s and county executives. Pray for business owners. We most likely may never know what the “right” decision was, so pray that we have the courage to make what we think are good and wise decisions with the information that we currently have.

Grace and Peace,

Pastor Tim

February 11, 2021: Precious Lord

There are many mornings right now where I have to find the energy to get moving and be productive. Many times, everything seems to be too much and I want it all just to stop. It’s February. Middle of winter. It is cold. There is a pandemic that has been going on for almost a full year. I feel tired. I feel weak. I feel worn.

Do you recognize those words from somewhere? They are from the hymn, “Precious Lord, Take My Hand.” While I have a lot of favorite hymns, this is one of them.

As I sat to write this article, I thought I would write about how that was Dr. Martin Luther King’s favorite hymn (at least that is what I was taught in college during a J-term class I took). But I didn’t want to say that without fact checking, so, google to the rescue. Fortunately for me, my memory was correct, or more to the point, my professor was correct. Multiple sites affirm that “Precious Lord, Take My Hand” was Dr. King’s favorite and he requested it be played quite frequently, including the night before he was shot and killed. But during my searching, I learned the story of behind the hymn. It was written by a Gospel choir director and blues musician Thomas Dorsey in 1933. I could try and sum it up here, but I wouldn’t do Mr. Dorsey’s story the justice it deserves or communicate the meaning it had to Dr. King. Therefore, I ask you to take 5 minutes and click the link and read about it here.

https://www.npr.org/sections/therecord/2015/01/15/377427650/how-one-of-gospels-essential-songs-gave-selma-its-soul

Whatever you might be feeling, you are not the first to feel that way and you won’t be the last. Know that you are loved by the creator of the universe and who will be with you through the storms and through the night, who will to take your hand, through the night, to lead you home.

Here is a beautiful version for you to listen to.

https://www.npr.org/sections/therecord/2015/01/15/377427650/how-one-of-gospels-essential-songs-gave-selma-its-soul

Grace and Peace,

Pastor Tim

February 4, 2021: Black History Month

As you are most likely aware, February is Black History Month. The purpose is to provide a yearly celebration of African Americans and their achievements. This is necessary because, growing up in America, particularly growing up white in America, we don’t know a lot of our history. Many stories were never taught to us at all, or if they were, they were whitewashed, downplayed and denied to avoid the reality of pain, suffering, oppression, and even achievements of black sisters and brothers. If this didn’t occur, we may not need to have Black History month, but it did, and so we do. Therefore, we need to be intentional about learning and experiencing what we have not learned or experienced.

During this month (and really, throughout your lives), I encourage you to intentionally seek out avenues to learn what you may not have been taught. Below is a list of several resources to get you started. Don’t forget, on your website, we have a page devoted to “anti-racist” materials. Some of those are listed below while other new ones have been added.

  • The podcast “Scene on Radio” – The season titled “Seeing White.”
  • Book “Stamped from the Beginning” by Ibram X. Kendi
  • Book “Stamped: A Remix” by Jason Reynolds (This is a young adult version the book by Ibram X. Kendi)
  • Book “How to Be an Anti-Racist” by Imbram X. Kendi
  • Book “I’m Still Here: Black Dignity in a World Made for Whiteness” by Austin Channing Brown
  • PBS special “The Black Church.” https://www.pbs.org/video/series-sell-black-church-a8zcgx/ (Premieres Feb. 16th)
  • “Uncomfortable Conversations with a Black Man” Video series hosted by ex-NFL player Sam Achoo. https://uncomfortableconvos.com/watch

Remember, as Christians with a Lutheran understanding of our faith, we are “Theologians of the Cross.” What this means, in its simplest form, is we “call a thing what it is.” We are not afraid to pull back the layers to reveal what has been hidden underneath. Our faith compels us to learn the truth, no matter where we might find it or how it might challenge or change us. In fact, we should want to learn and be changed, because in doing so, we are truly free to be the people God has called us to be. We are not concerned with keeping up a façade to make ourselves feel better. We all know how exhausting this can be. Truly healing comes from learning and acknowledging the truth.

None of this is intended to make you or us feel guilty, even though that might occur. Guilt is not the point. Understanding is the point. Empathy is the point. Improving is the point. Wanting the world to be more how God created it to be is the point. Freedom in Christ is the point. (Get the point? )

Ignorance is not part of God’s coming kingdom. Let’s work to rid the world of it now.

Grace and Peace,

Pastor Tim

February 1, 2021: Hope

Batten down the hatches. Tune up the snow blower. Loosen up your back. Make sure you have your favorite snack or drink handy in the cupboard or fridge. It looks like we are about to get hit with a lot of snow and wind in the next 24 hours. I hope you all have a safe, warm place to be. Say an extra prayer for those who are not as fortunate.

It is now February. It is an important month in the church because it is the time in which Lent begins. With Lent, there are some traditions and rituals that we look forward to every year, but due to the pandemic, they will have to look different. (Anyone else getting tired of hear that phrase? ). Below lists what is coming up and how to participate.

Ash Wednesday – Think of Christmas Eve Everywhere. But instead of gathering around the seacoast, there will be two times to gather in our parking lot to receive the imposition of ashes. On Wednesday, Feb. 17th, we will gather in our parking lot at noon and 6pm. These will be brief 20-minute services that will entail confession and forgiveness, imposition of ashes and a brief sermon/message. If you are not able to make it to the parking lot for this in-person service, I will record a message and imposition of ashes service for you to watch from the comfort of your own home. Ashes will be available to pick up from church prior to Ash Wednesday and will be found next to the communion elements in the Narthex. Lastly, if you would like a personal visit from me on Ash Wednesday, please contact me directly and we can schedule a time for me to stop by. Please directly email me at pastortim@htelc.com.

Holden Evening Prayer – We will keep this tradition and do it in the form we did during Advent. It will be live streamed from our sanctuary every Wednesday during Lent. Slight time change. 6pm.

Lent Theme – Each year, we have done some type of theme or study during our Wednesday evenings. This will continue again. This year a former member, David Ronka, and I will be leading a 5-week session on the book “The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery.” Lent is about self-examination. The Enneagram (pronounced “any-a-gram”) is a tool to help you understand the box you are in for the purpose of being able to get out of that box. Each week, we will gather on zoom, Wednesdays at 7pm and watch a 15-20 minute video of David and I introducing that week’s ideas and then have a conversation about insights into what we are learning and assign reading for the coming week. To say that the Enneagram is a “personality test” is a disservice. Generally, personality tests simply “tell you who you are,” kind of like giving you a “pat on the back.” The Enneagram is designed more to understand, at a deeper level, how to be a more whole person than you already are. It actually can be a little uncomfortable. Here is a link to the book on Amazon that will be needed to participate. https://www.amazon.com/Road-Back-You-Enneagram-Self-Discovery/dp/0830846190

Lent in a Bag – Faith Bygd, the Faith Formation Coordinator, is busy working to put together devotions for Lent. By the Sunday before Ash Wednesday, at the latest, you will be able to come to church and pick up your “Lent in a Bag.” In the bag will be weekly devotions and activities for you to do with your family, someone else or by yourself. Please email office@htelc.com if you would like one.(Delivery is an option also!)

That is it for now. I have hope that we might be back in the sanctuary for Maundy Thursday, God Friday and Easter Sunday as the vaccine is coming out, but no promises at this time. Just hope. Which really, isn’t that all we ever really have. Hope. We don’t know what the next day will bring. Tomorrow is never promised. It is only hoped for. We hope it will be a day in which we are one step closer to the end of the pandemic. But no matter what comes, we hope it will be a day in which there is a bit more peace. We hope it will be a day in which there is a bit more compassion. We hope it will be a day in which there is a bit more love. We hope.

Hebrews 11:1

Faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.

Grace and Peace,

Pastor Tim

January 28, 2021: Reconciling in Christ Sunday

This Sunday, January 31, is Reconciling in Christ Sunday. It is a day designated by Reconciling Works to celebrate people from all of life’s experiences, especially those who have been presently and historically oppressed, denied and ignored by the church and the world. Since we became a RIC congregation in November, we want to acknowledge this during our worship service and have it serve as a reminder that our work is not done. While we did do some work to designate Holy Trinity is a place that actually means it when we say “All Are Welcome” we know there are many people and places where this is not true. Our work as a church is not just about making our own place one of love and acceptance for all people, but helping others to become places that do the same.

Also, even though becoming a Reconciled in Christ congregation was a lot about what we are doing as a gathered community, it is also about what we are doing as individuals. As you went through our learning sessions, I hope you were made aware of some of your own biases and mis-understandings about the LGBTQIA+ community and that those new learnings are now evident in your life. This may be in the language you use, the words you choose, the conversations you engage in, how you engage in them and the organizations that you support or participate in (and potentially not participate in anymore).

Lastly, becoming RIC is more than about ensuring the welcome of the LGBTQIA+ community. It is about ensuring all people are welcomed, wanted and affirmed. Several times Jo Whiting quoted the first verse and chorus during our RIC Team meetings, and I think it is worth sharing here now. This is the type of place we hope to be. Becoming RIC is only one step.

Let us build a house where love can dwell

and all can safely live,

a place where saints and children tell

how hearts learn to forgive.

Built of hopes and dreams and visions,

rock of faith and vault of grace;

here the love of Christ shall end divisions:

All are welcome, all are welcome,

all are welcome in this place.

Grace and Peace,

Pastor Tim

January 25, 2021: State of the Church follow-up

We did it. Yesterday, we held our Annual Meeting. From my opinion, and from others who reached out to me, it was a success. We elected new council members (Welcome Erlinde Belivue as Secretary and Kristen Crawford as Treasurer). We elected Joan and Stever Bauer to attend the Synod Assembly in June (it will be virtual). We approved a Spending Plan for the year 2021! We even watch a brief “State of the Church Address” made by Cristina Dolcino, the Council President and myself.

I wanted to briefly follow-up and provide you with the article and book that I spoke about during the “State of the Church Address.”

The article “The Nuclear Family Was a Mistake” by David Brooks is from the March 2020 issue of The Atlantic. For some, it might be hard to read. It critiques a time that many people long for or want to return to. What I ask you to remember when reading it is that the point of the article is not to come to the conclusion or convince anyone that the time described was “bad.” Rather, it is about coming to an understanding that the time described no longer exists. For us to have helpful and fruitful conversations about the future of the church, we need to better understand our place in the world and the context around us. For me, this article was eye opening and helped me better understand what people are nostalgic for and why that isn’t coming back.

The book I referenced was “How to Lead When You Don’t Know Where You’re Going: How to Lead in a Liminal Time” by Susan Beaumont. The point of the book is to help churches take their time in determining what the future will be like. It doesn’t prescribe anything or say, “Do this and your problems will be solved.” In fact, Beaumont steers clear of the easy and prescribed answer. She is solely interested in helping congregations navigate their way into a future that appears uncertain and what pitfalls are common and how to look out for them. For me, this book gives me permission to take a deep breath and to put fear in its proper place.

Currently, conversations regarding this article and book will be at the council level. At some point, we will engage everyone about what this means for us as a congregation, but we are not there yet. I am informing you about all of this because it is good to be open about conversations and potential future directions. Please don’t feel the need to buy the book or read the article. That is not necessary. My writing here is meant to be informative. There will be no immediate or all-encompassing change in the near future. This is about beginning a conversation to better understand who we are and who we are called to be. The only thing that I am asking of all us to do right now is to pray. Pray for God’s Spirit and wisdom to be with us and for all of us to be open to it.

Thanks for your prayers.

Pastor Tim

January 21, 2021: Annual Meeting

Grace and Peace,

Only one thing to highlight today. Our annual meeting is set for this Sunday, Jan 24th at 11am on zoom. Here is what you need to know.

  • To ensure a quorum, please “sign-in” using the chat feature. No need for an email address this time and two people may sign in at the same time. Ex. Tim and Vicky Krick
  • When we ask for an approval of a motion, all you will need to do is raise your actual hand to vote, “in favor,” “opposed,” or “abstain.”
  • The votes we need to do are, 1) approve the Ministry Allocation Plan (budget), 2) elect new council members, 3) elect Synod Assembly representatives.
  • We will also hear from Cristina Dolcino, the Council President, and myself as we give a pre-recorded, “State of the Church Address.”

I know these aren’t the most exciting things to do, but they are important. Plus, during the “State of the Church Address” I will share where I believe we need to move toward as a congregation and how to begin having those conversations. This won’t be about “what changes need to happen” but rather how do we begin even understanding what changes need to happen and why certain changes need to happen.

To make it an official meeting, we need a quorum of 40 people. I am confident we will get that but please don’t assume we will get there without you. We want all people to be part of this process.

Thanks for being part of our faith community and helping us all learn more about what it means to be a follower of Jesus.

“See” you on Sunday.

Pastor Tim

January 14, 2021: Vaccine

We are now in 2021 and we are still dealing with the COVID-19 pandemic. While we are not out of the woods yet, there does seem to be light at the end of tunnel. A vaccine is becoming available and, slowly, I am seeing friends and colleagues share pictures on social media being vaccinated. Fortunately, I can now count myself as one of those people! Yesterday, I pulled up to the National Guard Facility in Rochester and without having to leave my car, I received my first dose of the vaccine and on my way back home 25 minutes later!

A couple of people have reached out and asked how I was able to receive it so quickly. (Not with anger but curious.) Fortunately, I am not in charge of deciding when people receive it, I was only a lucky recipient. According to the guidelines by the state of New Hampshire, clergy are “moderate risk” of the group designated 1a. From my understanding, since hospital chaplains and hospice workers are clergy, our profession was placed near the top. I solely benefitted from that. Honestly, there is a big part of my that feels guilty that I was able to receive it so quickly in this process. I was expecting to have to wait until summer as there are a lot of people who should have been vaccinated before me, namely TEACHERS! If I could have given my spot to someone else, I would have. Alas, I was not given that option. (Here is a link from the state that I was provided to me about the phases of vaccination.)

https://www.dhhs.nh.gov/dphs/cdcs/covid19/documents/phase-1a-technical-assistance.pdf

Because of the guilt I have about my ability to receive the vaccine, I was torn about whether I should. I decided to get it for two reasons. First, according to some quick internet searches (from reliable sources such as Business Insider and Scientific American), as of a month ago, nearly 40% of Americans say they are skeptical to get the vaccine. Many say they won’t receive the vaccine unless others get it first to show it is safe. If I can help be an example and show trust in the medical community, I will. I trust people, like Dr. Anthony Fauci and other scientists and healthcare professionals, are doing their best on behalf of all of us. I do not believe there is some ulterior motive behind all this and we are being used for some nefarious means. COVID-19 is real and the vaccine is necessary for us to “return to normal.” If people are not willing to do what is necessary (which many have not been willing, hence mask-wearing became a political) this will drag out longer than it already has and the damage being done will only get worse.

Second, I want us to be able to return to being in each other’s presence here at Holy Trinity and also in the rest of my life. Currently, I avoid indoor places with groups of people as much as possible. There are always exceptions, but by and large, the only time I am indoors with others, who are not my family, is to go shopping for groceries and other essential items. Vicky and I bundle up to go out on our weekly date for a beer. I have sat around fires in the middle of the day to enjoy a cup of coffee with a friend. We cancelled our Thanksgiving and Christmas plans with friends. As a pastor and a person, I look forward to the day where we are able to be together and sing and hug and receive communion, in-person. I look forward to not having to get take-out but eat and drink inside a restaurant. The vaccine is a step toward enabling that to happen. I did not budge or push my way or skip to the front of the line; I was just fortunate that I was able to receive it. Therefore, I did.

Now, just because I have the vaccine, or you have the vaccine, does not mean anything goes. There still needs to be precautions. The vaccine might protect me from contracting COVID, but the verdict is out on whether it prevents me from transmitting it to others. Therefore, I, and everyone else who receives it, still needs to mask, social distance and be diligent in our behavior. Here is a great link from NPR explaining why that is still necessary. This is one step, not the only step we will all need to take.

https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2021/01/12/956051995/why-you-should-still-wear-a-mask-and-avoid-crowds-after-getting-the-covid-19-vac

You might be asking when we will be returning to our sanctuary for worship. I wish I knew the answer. I don’t. Neither does council, even though we talk about this regularly. Unfortunately, numbers of cases and death are still on the rise across the country. While I advocate for the opening of schools for the sake of our kids and for finding ways to keep businesses open and afloat, I believe that what we do, gathering in our sanctuary, is not essential in the same way. What is most essential about what we do, loving our neighbor, we are still able to do. This does not diminish the role of physical, in-person gatherings, just a reminder that the end point of our faith is not physical, in-person gatherings. There have been Christians across the centuries who were not able to gather together and didn’t have the benefit of the technology we do. Faith was sustained and passed on to the next generation then, and we will do it now. No, this is not ideal but we can do this. Not because it is beneficial to us, but because it is what is beneficial to our neighbor.

Grace and Peace,

Pastor Tim

January 11, 2021: A Mighty Fortress

You did it. You made it. Another week is here!

It feels like an accomplishment, doesn’t it? Each week seems to be more exhausting than the week before? I watched Rich Swiatocha welcome us all to worship yesterday and he gave out a shout that 2020 was over. Then I thought, 2021 isn’t off to a better start.

So, I offer you no wise words today. No insights that you weren’t able to come up with on your own. I offer you only one thing. A song. A song whose lyrics I need today and trust you will need them also.

It is the most famous of all of Luther’s hymns. We always sing it on Reformation Sunday, but that is not the day it was written for. In my opinion, it was written to be sung during circumstances described in the last verse, “Were they to take our house, goods, honor, child or spouse, though life be wrenched away…

Do you feel a little hopeless? Do you feel like evil is winning? Do you feel like all is lost?

Perhaps this version of “A Mighty Fortress” will remind you of what is true. It comes in the conclusion of the last verse. I am not going to tell you what it is, you are going to have to listen to it. (Unless you can finish it yourself!)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_vT6HQ1QaU4

Grace and Peace,

Pastor Tim

January 7, 2021: Power and Country

Well, here goes. My thoughts on yesterday, from my faith-based perspective. I share them with humility knowing I don't know everything. In fact, the more I learn the less I know.

I don’t know if there is a “greatest” or “worst” sin. Is it murder? Rape? Theft? When we look at sin as a specific action in which harm is done from one person to another, we are left wondering which is worst. We then come up with a set of rules of what we can’t do and enforce those rules and dole out punishments based on the severity of the sin. The object or purpose is to try and manage or control our sin. We want to do less of it, with the hope of not doing it at all. Essentially, our lives become one of avoidance. We simply need to “stay away” from the “bad” and tell other people to do the same. Everything is about “Sin Management.” Hence, the church is known way too much by making people feel guilty for all the things they have done and by telling them they shouldn’t have done those things. (Please note, this isn’t entirely wrong about sin, but an extremely inadequate view of sin.)

But, as I watch events unfold around me, I have begun to think the answer to that question is different than what we might normally think. The answer to what is the “greatest” or “worst” sin is, in a word, idolatry. Idolatry is a word that is thrown around in faith settings, but often times the definitions given are vague and simplified so it is stripped of its actual meaning or substance. Briefly and in that vague and simplified way, idolatry, in the Christian sense that I have come to understand it, is having a god before God. Think of the first commandment, “You shall have no other God’s before me.” What does this mean? (A very Lutheran question!). Some of us like to think that idols or idolatry are essentially things that we deem more important than God or that we give more time and attention to then God. Therefore, it is easy to name things like movie stars or sports as idols. We care more about what they are doing and who they are dating. We know stats from 50 years ago and who is breaking that record today much more than knowing scripture, who wrote it and why it was written. But if we really want to get at the heart of idolatry, placing other god’s before God, we have to go deeper and be ready to be truly offended. Idolatry is not about specific actions of one person against another, rather it is the cause of our actions toward others.

The storming of the United States Capitol Building yesterday by domestic terrorists occurred because of the culmination of the idolatry so many of us place on our country and on power. You don’t need to have been walking the halls of the Capitol with a confederate flag to have played a role in all of this. As a follower of Christ, I should be concerned about one thing and one thing only, how is the love of God revealed and expressed to my neighbor, and most specifically to my neighbor that is oppressed and marginalized. That neighbor could be my literal next-door neighbor who looks like me or it could be my black, brown, or gay neighbor. It could be my fellow American neighbor or my Russian, Hispanic or Norwegian neighbor. It could be my Christian neighbor or my Jewish, Muslim or Buddhist neighbor. The truth is, as long as my neighbor is being treated with the respect, love and dignity they deserve, because of their inherent value and worth given to them by the creator of the universe, I should not care about who is or is not in power…as long as the ones in power are advocating for ways to treat those neighbors with that same respect, love and dignity. I should not care about what party is in control. As long as that party is advocating for ways to treat those neighbors with that same respect, love and dignity. I should not care about what country I live in and whether or not it is “the greatest nation in the history of the world” as long as that country is advocating for ways to treat those neighbors with that same respect, love and dignity.

What led to the actions of a small, fringe and radical group yesterday did not stem solely from ideas that occurred the last 4 years (although certain people absolutely stoked the flames that led to it by what they said or how they kept silent). It stemmed from all of us getting our worth and value from things are not God and instead it coming from power and a perceived loss of power. What we saw was a culmination of it and one example of it, but we all do it in other ways. Once our worth comes from something besides God, we are concerned with losing it because we know it won’t last. We need to cling to it as much as possible because we won’t know who we are unless we keep it. This is why we have racism, and toxic-masculinity, and white privilege and homophobia. This is why we have violence, chaos, anger, and resentment. This is a not new to us in our time and place but has been going on throughout history. We are only seeing it fleshed out in unique ways before our eyes. God has never been, nor ever will be American, or Republican, or White, or Straight. God is not a foreigner, Democrat, a minority or gay. God is not what we create God to be (although we do a really good job of trying to do that). God is love and goodness and beauty and humility and kindness, that as a Christian, I believe is most fully revealed in the life, death and resurrection of a human named Jesus. (Also, this does not mean that God cannot be revealed through other faith traditions rather, I believe the fullest revelation of God is in Jesus. But that is another conversation for another day.) Hence, we should want leaders who are rooted in love and goodness and beauty and humility and kindness who will advocate for the love and respect and dignity of our neighbors.

As you process the world around you and your place in it, pray for help to see it only through the eyes of God. Ask for help to view it as one who is loved unconditionally, not because of party affiliation or country of origin, but because the creator of the universe has chosen to love you. Remember, there is nothing you can do to make God love you more and there is nothing you can do to make God love you less. God loves you. May you live from that place of love.

January 4, 2021: Try

I am not a big fan of New Year’s Resolutions. I have made many over the years and have never kept one. I have said I am going to lose weight. Gained it. I am going to stop drinking soda. Ordered a coke. I am going to watch less TV. Found “The Good Place” on Netflix. I am going to read more. But I just found “Schitt’s Creek” on Netflix to watch now that I finished “The Good Place”! I am going to…(fill in the blank).

Have you done something similar? In fact, this year, I am doing it again. I want to wake up early, during the week, and exercise. Today, I am one-for-one. I got up at 6am, ran three miles and did some push-ups, sit-ups, squats and a plank afterwards. If felt good and I liked it and I hope to do it again tomorrow.

But I know at some point, I will most likely fail. There will be a morning in which I don’t feel well, it will be too cold (or too hot, or too something!) and I will stay in bed and not get up. It is just inevitable. My past experience has taught me that. I know, I could be better and focus more and say to myself, “Other people do this, so can I!” But I would rather approach it a different way.

There is a trend going on in which instead of making a resolution people choose a word as a theme for the year. They look for a guiding principle that will lead them each day which they can focus on and helps to direct them. I have seen words like “Focus,” “Compassion,” “Cultivate” or “Purpose.”

I like this idea. Too often, we set ourselves up with unrealistic expectations in which failure is inevitable and then we look at ourselves through that lens. Failure. We become disappointed or disapprove of ourselves and continually think we lack something or wonder what is wrong with us. Do we really need another reason to feel bad about ourselves? Most of us are pretty good at that already.

So, I am going to jump on the bandwagon and suggest you do the same. What is a word or theme that can direct or guide you this year? What is something that will encourage and inspire you to be better and pick you up when you falter as opposed to causing you to falter?

For me, the word that I am picking for this year is, “Try.” I want to try things. I want to experiment. I want to explore. I want to be curious. I want to be adventurous. I want to “try” new things. Not be afraid of what the outcome may or may not be, but rather to take the first step and see where it leads.

I think our faith encourages us to try. To step into the unknown. To risk without the assurance of a guaranteed outcome. Remember, who we are is not based in our successes and failures. Our value and worth is already set. We get to use that value and worth to try and live a life of value and worth.

I am going to “try” to live into this word for this new year.

What are you going to choose?

Grace and Peace,

Pastor Tim

December 21, 2020: Relax

Normally, at this time of year, it is not uncommon for me to write something that encourages us all to take a breath. Many of us can be exhausted from all the parties that we have been attending, or are stressed about shopping that still needs to be done and how crowded the stores will be. We worry about not having a clean house for family that will be coming over or wondering about how are we going to fit everything in the car as we head to grandma’s and grandpa’s house.

This year, we are just as exhausted, if not more so, but for different reasons. No one is coming over, so the house doesn’t have to be cleaned. We aren’t supposed to travel, so we don’t have to worry about loading up the car. Stores are not as busy because more shopping is being done online. Yet, because of the pandemic, even though we have no place to go, we are just as stressed and anxious.

So again, I remind us all to stop and breath. Close your eyes and relax. Inhale deeply through your nose and exhale out your mouth. Do this three times. Perhaps straighten up in your chair as you do it.

This won’t solve your problems. You won’t open your eyes with everything magically better. But you will feel more peace. You will be better able to move throughout your day with compassion and empathy. You will have a better understanding of love.

The birth of Christ is not about a party or a celebration. It is about a reordering of our lives. It is about God entering in the fear, anxiety and exhausted-ness that we deal with on a daily basis. Sometimes, in order to hear God, we need to be intentional about listening. Stop, breath and listen today.

Grace and Peace,

Pastor Tim

December 14, 2020: Brenna Fires

Iceland has a tradition on New Year’s Eve of building, what they call, Brenna bonfires throughout communities. It is a way of saying goodbye to the “old” as they build small mountains of objects they don't need any more and set the piles on fire across the cities. I see it as a way to say “Good Riddance” to things of the past that have been weighing them down and to create space in order to look forward to a year of new opportunities and beginnings.

December 21 is the longest night of the year. On that day, the sun will set at 4:11pm and won’t rise again until 7:12am the next day.

We are going to start a new tradition here at Holy Trinity and combine “Brenna Bonfires” with the “Longest Night” of the year. You are invited to come to our parking lot from 6-8pm on Dec. 21. We will have two fires going. At one fire, I will there throughout the evening for you to come and gather while appropriate music for the season and evening plays. (For a sample, take a listen to “Come Thou Long Expected Jesus” by Folk Angel.) Wear a mask, bring a cup of coffee and visit with whoever is present at the time you are there. At the other fire, we will have our own “mini-Brenna bonfire.” There will be a table set up next to the fire and on it will be paint sticks, sharpies and a prayer. Take a paint stick and write down one, some or all of the things you want to say “Good Riddance” to from this past year. No one will be reading this, so it is not just okay, but good to be personal and specific. Write down the emotional baggage you have been carrying around or the personal habits you are trying to kick. After you name those, then you can write down more general ideas that the world needs to be rid of, like the pandemic or hate. After you are down naming things and writing them on the paint stick, take a copy of the prayer from the table, read it and then throw the paint stick in the fire. (Take the prayer home and put it in a place where you will see it regularly for the next several days.) Stay there as long as you want as the fire burns just a bit brighter and linger in its light and warmth. When you are ready, return to the other fire or head home.

I think traditions and rituals are important, especially in times of adversity. We need to name what is going on around us and remind ourselves that they won’t last forever, even if it feels like they will. If people are asked to name when the darkest and longest nights of the year are, most will name the nights that occur in January and Feb. Yet, it is during those months when the days are actually getting longer. Each day will have just a few more minutes of sunlight than the one before. If we don’t stop and notice it, it is easy to think the darkness will last forever and for us to give into feelings of despair and hopelessness that nothing will change.

During this new tradition may we name the reality of the night around us but remind ourselves that it is not permanent. Rather, light is not only coming, but is starting to arrive.

Grace and Peace,

Pastor Tim

December 10, 2020: Hannakah

A message from Pastor Tim

A book that I recently read is “Holy Envy” by Barbara Brown Taylor. The premise of the book is simple enough. Taylor is an ordained Episcopal priest, a world-renowned preacher and teaches a “Religion 101” class at Piedmont University. The book, “Holy Envy” is not a primer on world religions, but rather it details her experience of teaching the “Religion 101” class through the eyes of her students and shares what she has learned and appreciates from other religions and how that influences her view and understanding of Christianity. I highly recommend this book.

I bring it up now, because today is the first day of Hannukah. For me, I grew up knowing its name but nothing else. Perhaps I knew something about a dreidel but that was it. Over the past few years, I have learned more and come to appreciate its significance and importance in the Jewish faith. I won’t try to explain Hannukah here, but ask you to watch this 3-minute video that, I feel, does a terrific job sharing its meaning. Please watch before continuing reading.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VvFqBimGuIQ

Like Taylor, in her book “Holy Envy” the more I learn from the faith of our neighbors, the more I learn about my own faith. After watching the video, I think there are a couple of questions that stem from Hannukah that we can ask ourselves as Christians (or anyone can and should ask themselves).

What can we dedicate ourselves to during this time?

and

How can I bring a bit of light into the darkness?

A way in which I think the general understanding of Christianity needs to change is that we need to move away from the thinking of “How can I save neighbor?” to “What can I learn from my neighbor?”

God saves. We serve.
A way to serve is by learning.
A way to serve is by understanding.
A way to serve is by appreciating.

While we, as Christians, are in Advent and preparing to celebrate what God has done in the past (Christmas and the birth of Jesus), it is also about looking forward to what God is going to do in the future. God is going to bring light and life into the world fully when Christ comes again. Until that day arrives, may we all dedicate ourselves to understanding how we may participate in it.

Grace and Peace,

Pastor Tim

December 3, 2020: Christmas Eve Everywhere

It goes without saying, but as Thanksgiving was different for all of us this year, Christmas will follow suit. We will not be able to gather as we have in the past, either without our individual extended families or without our Holy Trinity family…well, at least not in the way we traditionally have. But we will still gather. Therefore, let me introduce you to…

CHRISTMAS EVE EVERYWHERE!

Here is what will happen. Starting at 5pm, and then on every consecutive hour, I will be at a different, outdoor, location in the seacoast area. You are invited to bundle up and join me (being physically distant and wearing a mask, of course) for a 20-minute service that will include…

  • Singing of O Come All Ye Faithful (with masks on)
  • Reading of the Nativity Story from Luke
  • Communion with REAL BREAD AND WINE (we will have gluten free and NA options available)
  • Singing of Silent Night and lighting of candles (or using glow sticks if weather dictates it).

The locations and times are shown on the poster farther down in this email. Please find the location nearest to you (or at the most convenient time) and join me. The only reason why we wouldn’t meet would be if there is a blizzard and it is not safe to drive, therefore, come dressed appropriately.

I am looking for someone(s) at each location to arrive 15minutes early and bring the communion elements and candles or glowsticks and pass them out (I will provide them to you beforehand). Due to the distance between a couple of the locations, I will be arriving just before or right at our designated starting time. Also, due to some of the distances, we will need begin promptly at the top of the hour so I have ample time to get to the next service. If you traditionally arrive late on Christmas Eve and like to sneak in the back, that will not be an option for you! Please contact me if you are willing to help.

For those of you who are not able to join us at one of the locations, we will be recording our traditional Christmas Eve worship in our sanctuary and posting that on YouTube for you to watch at your convenience. The sanctuary is currently being decorated with our tree and banners and all the things that make it so beautiful this time of year. That service will also consist of communion and end with the singing of Silent Night and the lighting of candles (glowsticks shouldn’t be needed indoors. )

Just because we can’t do what we have always done does not mean that this year will be any less special. As I said at the top of this message, it will simply be different. Different is neither good nor bad. Different can be what we make of it. I am looking forward to making something good with it. I hope you are as well.

Grace and Peace,

Pastor Tim

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November 30, 2020: Advent

Lot’s going on, but I want to highlight just a few.

First, every week during Advent, please look for a video devotion to be used with your Advent Wreath. I will speak for no more than 5 minutes on the theme for the candle that we light in worship on the prior Sunday. Yesterday, we lit the candle for Hope, hence, tomorrow there will be a video on Hope. Sorry, I won’t have them ready for you on Sunday evening, but if you are like my family, you light the candle on your Advent Wreath any night you can, and not just Sunday nights. You don’t even need to do it with the wreath, just watch it when you can.

Second, starting tomorrow (or Tuesday, Dec. 1) we will be live streaming Holden Evening Prayer, from our sanctuary on YouTube Live at 7pm, EST (subscribe on our YouTube Channel or go to our website to find the live stream). You are invited to join us every Tuesday, during Advent, for this time of music and peacefulness. If you would like a copy of Holden Evening Prayer to have at home, please stop by church during our regular hours (8:30am-4pm) and pick a copy up (please return it when Advent is over!)

Third, remember, there are multiple ways to worship with us on Sunday mornings. We will be livestreaming (on YouTube Live) a worship from our sanctuary at 8:30am. If you can’t join us at that time, the worship will be available immediately afterwards on YouTube, again subscribe to our YouTube channel to find it easily. Don’t worry, this is not replacing our worship on Zoom at 9:30am every Sunday. We will continue that for the foreseeable future. The zoom worship is made available on facebook simultaneously and afterwards on our website. Also, the sermons are podcasted each week and can be found by searching for “Holy Trinity Evangelical Lutheran Church” on iTunes or Stitcher.

Thank you to everyone who participated in our congregational meeting on Nov. 22 as we accepted our Statement of Welcome and Affirmation and became a Reconciling in Christ Congregation. We had 85 people and, while I will not say it was perfectly smooth, it went really well. The final vote was 79 “in favor,” 5 “opposed,” and 1 “abstain.” Look for more information in the coming months on how we will celebrate this as a community.

As always, there is lots going on here at Holy Trinity for you to participate in, not just from the ways listed above, but from all the ways listed below, that you haven’t read yet. But remember, the most important work we do as a church does not occur in the building or through the building, it occurs in your life. It occurs because you are so moved by the love of Christ that it captures your imagination and it comes out in the way you treat your loved ones, in the way that you treat your friends, in the way you behave in public and behind closed doors when you are alone. It occurs in a peace and contentment in your heart when the storms are ranging around you and you will the whisper of God in your ear say, “The storm will not last. I am with you. Do not be afraid.”

Grace and Peace,

Pastor Tim

November 19, 2020: RIC Vote, Live Streaming Worship, and suspending all Indoor worship.

Lot’s going on this week, and three jumped out that require further or more detailed mention from me.

First, this Sunday, Nov. 22 at 11am, we are having a congregational meeting to vote on our Welcoming Statement, upon which we will become a Reconciling in Christ Congregation. We sent out a letter to everyone a couple of weeks ago announcing this and giving the guidelines for how to participate and how the meeting will function. If you need a refresher, please click here. Remember, in order to vote, you must attend the meeting.

Secondly, take 2! We attempted live streaming a worship service this past Sunday morning. It didn’t go as planned. The streaming service we selected did not cooperate well and therefore we never “went live.” We believe that we have solved that problem and are set to try again this week. You can access a worship service, conducted in our sanctuary, live at 8:30am this Sunday, and hopefully every Sunday after that. If 8:30 is too early for you, the service will be available immediately afterwards on YouTube. The best way to access the live stream or the recording of it is to go to our website, www.htelc.com and look for the link. We ask that you “Subscribe” to our YouTube channel, as doing so, it will make it easier for you and others to find us in the future. There is a big red button with the word “Subscribe” in white on the main page that you can click.

Third, if you have not heard by now, we are suspending all indoor worship services and other church activities due to the rise of COVID-19 cases in our community and across the country. This was not an easy decision to make. There are thoughts that we could continue meeting and continue enforcing our safety guidelines, and most likely, all would be well. But as stated before, the only guaranteed way to stop the spread of COVID is by not gathering, in-person, at all. Remember, just because we are not physically together, does not mean we are spiritually together. God’s love knows no boundaries, including the boundary of this virus in the world. There are lots of ways to connect with each other and continue being the church in the world. The pandemic will never stop that.

Grace and Peace,

Pastor Tim

November 12, 2020: Let's Play our Part to stop COVID-19.

The election is over, but COVID is still here. Don’t you wish they both would have ended? Alas, that is not the case. Instead of going away, case numbers, hospitalizations and deaths are all on the rise (fortunately, the death rate is not climbing as fast, at this point). While we are still doing well, compared to the rest of the country, we are not immune. This morning on my drive to church I heard a report that cases in New Hampshire have doubled in the last two weeks. As we know, as cases rise, deaths rise as well, just not as fast.

I say this, not to depress you, but rather because it causes me concern as we have begun to hold in-person worship services. While it has been well received by those who attended, it is not a foregone conclusion that they are here to stay or we will hold them indefinitely. Each month, and as necessary, council will revisit the decision to hold in-person worship and whether or not it is the right or wise thing to do. While we take into consideration if people want an in-person worship and will attend, that is not the deciding factor. We look at community spread. We look at treads across the country. We talk about what our role is as a church in helping to mitigate the virus. All this is to say, whatever we decide to do as we move into winter, we do not make any decision lightly. Council is a place where many and varied decisions are offered and heard. We may not always agree, but we do support what we decide.

As we continue to discern our way forward, I ask that you pray for several different groups...

  • Churches as they continue to figure out new ways of worshipping and being together.
  • All medical caregivers as they continue to put their health at risk to help those who are sick and suffering.
  • Counselors and all mental health professionals as they continue to deal with a rise in depression and anxiety in people of all ages.
  • Leaders in our community and country as they make decisions to keep people safe, knowing whatever they decide it will make some people irate.
  • School administrators, teachers and support staff as they continue to do their best to educate our youth in a way that has never been done before while keep them and their communities safe.
  • People who currently have the virus and are afraid of how it will affect them and those who are fighting for their life.
  • People who have lost a loved one to the virus as they are entering into the Holiday season.
  • For all who are feeling “COVID Fatigue,” to strengthen our resolve to do the steps necessary to limit the spread of the virus.
  • Anyone else or group that you can think of that is not listed above.

I listened to a podcast yesterday that featured a conversation with Dr. Michael Osterholm. He is a leading epidemiologist and infectious disease doctor in the country. He talked about this being the season of the pandemic in the same way we have a baseball or football season. Each season is not forever, but for a period of time. It will come to an end, but we need to prepare for the season. Maybe we need to think of the time we are in as the 2020-21 COVID season. There will only be one, but we are in the middle of it right now. Let’s play our part, as well as we can, so it will be as short of a season as possible.

Grace and Peace,

Pastor Tim